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Lonshine- 04-27-2005
Offering advice and assistence to anyone
Greetings Group, Love and Light to all !!! I think we are all in the midst of a great spiritual evovlution, a sometimes slow even painful process, I personally walk the Red Road and carry the wisdom of my Ancestors born knowing about the path of my Native American Ancestors, I would be able to offer you advice and help in understanding your dreams and the process of the evolvlution we are all experienceing. I work with the Medicine wheel and Animal spirits I am a part of this group to offfer any help I can to your journey and to recieve knowledge and growth in my own. Have you be seeing one animal more then others lately?? Do have Dreams you are not understanding ??? Is your own evolvlution stagnant???? Do you need or want distant Reiki treatments? Do you need someone to listen to you as you proces???? Please feel free to contact me I am as always Lonshine Lonshine@charter.net

nat- 05-03-2005

:) Hello Lonshine! I would like to ask you if there is anything you think I may do with a 'wand' i bought a couple of years ago. It seems very shamanic, with deer antler at top and horse tail,feathers and fur on. It sort of jumped out at me at a festival and since I have had it waiting for 'use'!! I felt for the first couple of years, my environment was too negative to have it on show, but now have it in my living room. i feel i would like to try to work with it but am not sure what to do!! I also have seen a wolf in the past, a bird which i think is either an eagle or kestrel and sometimes have seen someone who wears a coat of skins. can you show me any light on any of this? You alos mentioned reiki, I don't want to be too greedy on my first post to you, but if you had a moment, i would love some distant healing! I have been through quite a tough year and heavily trying to cleanse all areas of life, and would much appreciate any healing available. Thankyou Nazzy

yezzidi- 05-28-2005
Hi Lonshine = )
Here's a little riddle that has been keeping me awake. Advice from n enlightened being is just what I need. Ok here goes: One of my brother has Schizophrenia. most of his life he's been rather eccentrict but we all thought he was just weird. About 5 years ago he really flipped out. He said he was Gopd, then he said he was the devil, he had this demented glossy-eyed stare, he talks on his own, he says he sees devils, he says he's married to this demon lady, and then when he went on medication he was "normal"-- by that I mean he wasn't having psychotic episodes anymore (wasn't hearing or seeing things) but there was still a lot of abnormal behavior. Like being very distant and antisocial, always angry, compulsive liar, sleeps a lot ,refuses to eat, draws pictures of devils, etc. One day he says he's with God and then the next he says he's the son of satan. He's also in his own little fantasy world because he says he works asa dj at htis bar, or that he's a millionaire, he then says he's a contractro and he paints industrial warehouses no smaller than 10000 sq feet (I don't know why in his fantasy world he's so picky) and he's also making up stuff like that. Ok so about 2 months ago he refused to take his monthly haldol injection, and he refused his daily benztropine also. We all didn't know about it. So slowly he began acting a little more weird and a little more weird. My mom wanted to take him to church so the catholic priest could exorcise him. But I insisted we take him to the hospital because he was behaving very weirdly and seeing things, he said Satan wanted to kill him, that they were comming for him (whoever they are), that he was yehova, that he was perfectly fine while he shook nervously with glossy madmen eyes, and then he would also speak complete nonsense that no one wpouild understand. He stopped eating for a week and wouldn't drink water and was very dehydrated. Anyway, right now he's in a mental hospital until he gets better. My question is, if he refused the antipsychotic injection when he was sane, and allow 2 months to pass by while he woitnessed his own degression back into crazyness, then that means he doesn't want help, so is it proper for me to help him out by sending him energy, positive thinking, asking a reiki master to "fix" him, getting him better treatement, etc.? Or do I have no right to intervene? I wonder because what if this is part of his life lesson, this is the obstacle he has to overcome on his own, or he needs to experience this? And this is not the same as letting someone, say, die of cncer because we rationalize that this is the challenge they have to endure. He was offered the treatement but he refused, he stopped taking it. So he volunteerily chose to degress and become all psychotic. He's such a compulsive liar, he lies about everything, he denies his disease, he denies the things he does like throwing away items that do not belong to him in the trash, he even let my dog loose so she would run away, just to be a jerk, etc. my dog didn't run away, luckily, but his intent is what bothers me. He refuses his medication, and I get a feeling almost as if he enjoys being psychotic. So do I have a right to help him out? Should I even bother to help him out? Best wishes = ) Robert

twowolveswoman- 06-20-2005

Hi, Robert, So sorry to hear about your brother's illness. Schizophrenia is a tough thing to deal with at best, but it sounds like your brother has other underlying issues as well. I'm no psychiatrist although I do have some training in psychology and knowledge/understanding gained from the "school of hard knocks". It sounds to me like your brother has extremely poor self-esteem and that when he is not psychotic he may feel powerless and insignificant. Look at the lies he tells, they are all of being important and powerful, and when he is psychotic he thinks he is God or Satan, which again is a type of power trip. The nasty things he does are a way of asserting power, as well, by doing hurtful things and bringing others down. The tough part with someone like this is that his psychosis actually makes him feel powerful and therefore he might prefer it to the relative "sanity" he experiences when he's taking medication. Drug therapy can only suppress the hallucinations but does nothing for the underlying issues. For him to overcome that, he would have to work hard with a skilled professional to change his belief system. And he would have to WANT to change. I'm a Reiki Master, and I can tell you that I can't "fix" anyone unless they agree to it and do their part. I have seen so many people improve after a treatment and then when I see them again they're right back where they were because they weren't willing to let go of something even though it was hurting them. It sounds like your brother feels that he gains something from his illness and he may not want to give it up. You can offer to get him better treatment and see if he's open to it. You could also try sending him love energy but don't try to force it on him or you might only hurt yourself. Don't blame yourself if he's not open to changing, in the end each of us makes our own decisions and no one else is responsible. I will pray for you to find the strength, wisdom and guidance you need. Hope this helps a little. Blessings, Susan

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